Letter from your Sarthi
Having aspirations is like the weather, which constantly changes and gives our lives meaning. A person's aspiration motivates them to move forward in life. They act as your guiding stars through life. Having aspirations can also help you feel joy and eventually achieve a state of happiness. However, if we are not aiming for something, we will fall for something that exists without a purpose. Therefore, it becomes important to know what to do. Because sometimes we do everything right but still don't achieve our goal. Then, what should we do if we fail? Are there any possible reasons for this? So today in this blog, we will discuss the reasons why we fail to achieve our aspirations and what to do if our ambitions are not achieved.
When it comes to achieving some goals in life, failing is a natural part of the process. But if you are continuously falling, then there might be a chance of taking the wrong approach. Perhaps these could be the reasons you need to pay attention to:
1. Unclear objectives
When people don’t have any specific ideas on how to achieve their targets, they get distracted. It is not enough to simply state your desire; you must also specify how you want to accomplish this.
2. Procrastination
Setting your goals doesn’t matter until you get the desired results. People have many wonderful ideas to make a plan, but only a few follow it for a week before giving up because they lack the energy and focus for some reason. And due to these factors, they tend to keep delaying the tasks which means they procrastinate. Hence, people should make sure not to fall into the trap of procrastination.
3. Afraid of failure
We often build a target and want to accomplish it, but because of overthinking about the futuristic results, we lose dedication because we get afraid of failure. So, our brain automatically goes into alert mode and starts thinking about the negative consequences that may occur. Hence, we are not able to achieve our aspirations.
4. Having too many goals
Your efficiency and effectiveness may suffer if you have too many goals because your brain can only concentrate on one thing at a time. Your brain cannot successfully complete two activities when you attempt to accomplish them both at once.
Failure is a part of life, and it seems pointless to try again after not meeting our goals. And people tend to assume that they are not good enough. Let’s face it, some goals are unsettling, so feeling depressed and anxious about them is quite normal. But that doesn’t mean a person can’t achieve it. Even if you fail in your plan, consider it a test that you have just begun. Regardless of whether you succeeded in achieving your goals, you still gained experience and knowledge.
Use it as a learning tool to reframe the new strategy. People only need to remember how much effort they put toward the goal. Success is like trying out a dish; the more determined you become to improve the quality, the better it tastes. It is not about how much time we put into it, but rather how patient and consistent we are. Nobody can take your dreams away. So, instead of focusing on failed ideas, get new strategies and approaches.
When it comes to maintaining long-term goals, it is difficult to identify or redefine the work process. However, you can still accomplish the task by breaking those long-term targets into shorter ones. Here are some tips to look at:
● The first step is to create a visual map of the goal you wish to achieve. Take out a notebook and begin writing about the task you want to complete.
● Next, create the sections that describe the tasks you need to complete to achieve the overall goal.
● Set the timelines for each task to be completed in the given duration.
● Then, have a measurable period of time. This enables you to monitor your progress and maintains motivation. You can stay focused, fulfill deadlines, and experience the thrill of coming closer to your objective by regularly evaluating your progress.
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प्रिय,
यह जीवन और यह दुनिया बहुत सुंदर और सुखदायी है, परंतु हम अपनी इच्छाओं के अधीन होने के कारण अपने लिए दुःख को बुला लेते हैं। मनुष्य जीवन का मिलना ही अपने आप में यह दर्शाता है कि आपका पिछला जन्म अवश्य ही आनंदमय रहा है।
आपने 'सच' को अपना सारथी चुना, इसके लिए आपका स्वागत है और बहुत-सी शुभकामनाएँ। आप स्वयं अपने जीवन के रथ के चालक हैं और जीवनपर्यंत रहेंगे। मैं या अन्य कोई भी—चाहे वे आपके गुरु हों अथवा आचार्य, आपके माता-पिता हों या आपके मित्र—ये सभी आपको अपने-अपने रूप और अपनी समझ के अनुसार दिशा दिखा सकते हैं, किंतु चलना तो आपको ही पड़ेगा।
कोई भी, चाहे वह स्वयं को भगवान ही क्यों न कहे, अथवा जिसे आप पूज्य मानते हों और उन पर पूर्ण विश्वास करते हों—यदि वे आपकी समस्या का उपाय किसी भी प्रकार की पूजा-अर्चना, जादू-टोना या किसी मंदिर में मन्नत माँगने के रूप में देते हैं, तो मैं कहूँगा कि यह सब करने से आपको मन की सांत्वना तो मिल सकती है, पर समस्या का निदान हो ही जाएगा, इसका भरोसा नहीं किया जा सकता।
'सच' (Sarthi for your life) एक ऐसा प्लेटफॉर्म है जहाँ हम आपकी समस्या का समाधान अपनी समझ और जीवन के लम्बे सफ़र मैं जो experience और अनुभव से सीखा और जाना उसी से करने का प्रयास करेंगे और इसी प्रकार की सलाह भी देंगे और रास्ता दिखाएँगे। उस पर चलना और प्रयास करना तो आपको ही पड़ेगा।
हम जीवन के अच्छे और बुरे समय में काम आने वाली अन्य बातों पर भी चर्चा करते रहेंगे, जिससे यदि जीवन में कठिनाई आए भी, तो आप उसमें से हँसते-मुस्कुराते बाहर निकल सकें।
तो आइए, चलते हैं एक हसीन, meaningful और सार्थक यात्रा पर।
